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Monday
02Mar2009

Where We Call Home

Last month, the blog posts here dealt mostly with the theme of self-love.

It's such a huge topic that I'd like to continue with it this month, specifically dealing with our feelings toward our bodies.

I was reading an article** in my latest bodyworker's magazine, in which the author, massage therapist Lee Ronald, describes her first professional contact with real bodies:

"Therefore when I was confronted with my first bodies for massage practice, I did so with an awareness that these were both bags of skin and profound receptacles of a lifetime of being human."

"Profound receptacles of a lifetime of being human."

Does that not conjure up a deeper sense of respect for this bag o'bones that we so take for granted, and sometimes treat with feelings of ambivalence, or even disdain?

Ronald was using this metaphor as a reminder to bodyworkers of the wonder of the human body, and that what we do is an honor and a gift, and an opportunity to see and feel past the societal standards of beauty, to embrace the life stories in the form of flesh that we are presented with daily.

I believe, as Ronald does, that as bodyworkers, we are capable of bringing this awareness of inherent beauty to our clients, beginning first with holding this awareness in ourselves while we lay our hands on them. Her lamentation, and the point of the article, was that this perspective was not taught in massage school, but instead a stance of 'objective' detachment.

But while detachment may be necessary to a degree on a professional level, with it, she observed, came judgment for the 'less-than-perfect' bodies, and how could this really help the people we were trying to serve, as well as continue to stoke our own passion for chosen profession?

The human body is truly a thing of beauty to behold... both the external appearance and the astonishing inner workings.

I intend to explore this theme in the coming weeks, proving the case made in the previous statement, and I hope you will offer your thoughts and contributions as well.

 

** The article mentioned above, "Honoring the Body", by Lee Ronald, appears in the March/April 2009 issue of Massage and Bodywork magazine. This article will be available online (http://abmp.com) in the coming weeks.

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Reader Comments (5)

I love that metaphor. As soon as I read it, I mentally started taking inventory of the places in my body that are vivid reminders of my life. For example, the scar on my knee from when I fell off my bike when I was a kid - I remember that day and my friends...

I also have a chicken pock scar on my nose - from when I had chicken pox. And I can feel my muscles in new ways this morning because I do yoga and dance, and I push myself because it feels really good...

Man, that metaphor just brings up such respect for my body... exactly as it is right now.

March 3, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJenn Givler

And let's not forget how willing it is to carry our stored emotions, even as we're not ready to deal with them.

March 3, 2009 | Registered CommenterGina Loree' Marks

I like the notion 'my body is my temple' as ultimately the body is the house of the soul.

I've been reading a lot right now about resourcing--that there are so many things around us that support us and nurture us, or perhaps that simply work, that we take for granted, and I was just thinking last night that our bodies are one of them.

For instance, my fingers send messages to my brain about what I'm touching, what I'm typing; my brain is creating my words (or taking dictation from my muse) and I'm simply able to type them out, to talk to you here; my legs and tendons and muscles and twist around so that I can curl up in my favorite chair to work. It's just all kind of amazing. And we so often forget that. That it's just kind of amazing.

Love this post. Thanks for the reminder.

March 18, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterDiane Whiddon-Brown

Diane: right? Like that whole 'so many more things actually are working than not' tweet from yesterday. (Downed wifi notwithstanding..:( Showing a little love to our bodies once in a while is a good thing. Thank you for commenting.

Astrid: Ultimately it is, and it's the only vehicle we have to get to enlightenment with/from/through.

March 18, 2009 | Registered CommenterGina Loree' Marks

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