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Wednesday
10Sep2008

Expand Your Range of Motion

In the manual therapy world we use the term: (pretty self-explanatory) 'range of motion'.

ROM. It refers to an assessment of how far within an optimum range a person can express flexibility: turning of the head, shoulder or hip rotations, side bending, touching the toes, etc. We are born with maximum, almost hyper, flexibility, as a function of curling up in the womb. Out of necessity, we do lose that to some degree, so muscles and joints can be strong enough to carry us upright.

The sad fact is that as we get older, many of us tend to lose a great deal of our range of motion. We chalk it up to aging, but truthfully, flexibility is something that needs to be and can be cultivated regularly. When our own voluntary movements lose variety, and when we limit our actions to only what modern living demands of us (which is far too little) we lose our ability, as well as desire to stretch beyond what becomes physical boundaries.

Whaddya know? There's that 'comfort zone' theme again! The problem is, it's only comfortable for so long. Like until you find yourself wanting to do something that used to be effortless. Challenge that zone and we are given a quick, and often painful reminder of where our ROM begins and ends.

Limited range of motion is not always due to limited challenging activity. It can also be a by-product of injury, or trauma (physical or emotional). But the end result is the same. Hesitation and fear around re-experiencing pain or injury keeps our movements small and safe... back injuries are a prime example of this. Often a majority of the back discomfort that lingers after an injury is a result of 'protecting' the back by limiting its movement. Yes, that's right.. lack of movement is a prime contributor to pain and stiffness. And, here's the thing... it also sets the stage for further injury.

I'd like to offer the visual of a circle... the ROM, the comfort zone. We all have one to some degree that we dwell within. After all, certain limitations are necessary to exist in a physical body. The question is how wide of a diameter is that circle? Or how tight? To expand one's ROM is to open up that circle a little wider... creating space, more freedom of movement and more range of possibilities.

So, how do we widen that circle.. both in body and in mind?

 

  • Identify the circle. Where do you feel limited? What do notice that feels stiff, stuck, challenging? What do you have hesitation, fear, anxiety, defensiveness around? What is an activity that was once effortless, but now seems too scary to consider? Where do you feel you may be in a rut?
  • Choose one area in which you'd like to expand your ROM. Has it been a while since you could easily touch your toes? Or how about that one yoga asana that's been eluding you? What about a life goal? A person you've been meaning to speak to, a different way of accomplishing your professional tasks? I suggest here, if ROM stretching is something new to you, to start small. Injuries and rejections can be painful, discouraging and counterproductive, while successes will fuel your courage.
  • Set an intention to be open to any opportunities for movement. Sitting in an office chair all day? I email myself periodic reminders to get up and move. Whatever form that may take, for example, stretching while reading emails. Setting an intention can also create a subconscious alarm, like when you find yourself retreating into a typical 'comfort zone' situation, a little nagging voice will say, 'Psst! This would be a great time to ask that cute guy out," or "Now would be a perfect time to say 'no', I will not cover your butt to the boss this time."
  • Gather a support system. Our biggest obstacle dwells in our own heads. We know this. Widening the comfort circle, no matter how incrementally, requires impetus, if not outright courage. Having steady encouragement will keep us on our path. In bodywork terms, having a therapist who can bring greater awareness to how your body responds, as well as offering concrete techniques such as assisted stretching, can bring you further than you could go alone.
  • Listen to your body. View its signals as allies. Symptoms of discomfort tell us we're bumping up against those boundaries, which is good to know. It is also useful to invoke patience here, compassion with oneself, and to question what really lies beneath the fears. What are really afraid will happen if we step over the line? Sometimes just asking the question allows for openness.
  • Just to reiterate, have patience. Discomfort is one thing... outright pain is another. Taking on too much may be exhilarating at first, but you'll probably pay for it later. Muscles will contract and defense mechanisms will solidify even harder if pushed too quickly. However, by the same token, sometimes taking big risky leaps is just what we need to do. Remember that support system? Rely on them for feedback, moral support, and if necessary, help in recuperating.

 

A phrase was given to me is shiatsu school that I will pass along to you: "Encourage movement. Respect boundaries."

Good rule of thumb, I say.

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Wednesday
27Aug2008

Thinking Outside the Box

Such an oft-used term, isn't it? Almost a cliche'.

'Thinking outside of the box' is a metaphor intended to be descriptive of the creative process... to discover new solutions for familiar  problems by tossing out the 'same ol' same ol', and abandoning unproductive paradigms.

And what is a paradigm? A perspective and way of thinking so overarching as to be invisible and unquestioned. The idea of challenging paradigms can feel as scary as taking oneself off life-support.

Continuing with the box metaphor, paradigms can come in many sizes. They be giant freight containers.. encompassing entire cultures, or shoe boxes small enough to contain a family, a couple or an individual. What's most remarkable about these boxes is the flimsy material from which they're fabricated, but our experience of them is that of plexiglass. Invisible, yet unbreakable. They are stories (and often assumptions) about "the way things are". We may not even notice a paradigm until it is challenged.

What does this have to do with bodywork? (Always the question, isn't it? Where is she GOING with this?" Bear with me..)

I see a parallel between limited paradigms that don't serve us, and a limited range of physical expression. Paradigms are the stories about "the way things are". And our bodies are the storytellers. We come into this world with full range of motion and expression... and over time, the stories, with their accompanying limitations, pile onto us, like layers of clothing. Some asked-for, many not. Life goes on and there may come a time (if we're lucky) when we wonder, who am I? under this cumbersome wardrobe. Our bodies have taken the shape of what we've molded ourselves to be.. to find happiness, to maintain a relationship, to self-protect, to feel worthy, to care for others... and often, we start to buckle under all that weight.

Again, if we're lucky, the inkling of a suspicion comes forth about a potential key to our happiness. This inkling glows and grows, makes us giddy with joy.. begins to take on a life of its own, and then.. WHAM!...comes smack up against the constraints of the box. Paradigms of the Way Things Are, or Should Be, or Have Always Been (often labeled as 'reality') fill us with feelings of doubt and shame, and guilt... and 'what the hell was I thinking?'  -- and back into the cramped box goes that little spark of joy (otherwise known as 'who you really are').. to either die a sad and lonely death, or to continue to find a way to express itself, in ways that may not always be very healthy to self and others.

I've seen it, and I've felt it, in my clients and in myself.

Like I said, challenging paradigms can feel life-threatening. Challenging a limited range of motion can feel painful and destabilizing. We get very, very used to stuff. Even if we're miserable.

But here's the thing. What if, even for the briefest of moments, we were to stop ourselves in the process of stuffing our deepest desires underneath the layers of our beliefs about 'How We Should Be", and in that moment asked, "Whose story is this? Why do I believe what I believe about this? And is it really true? Whose clothes ARE these?" It is in that moment of questioning that utter miracles happen.  Even if we choose to keep those clothes on.. keep our beliefs and our paradigms (because we gotta have something to go on!).. even still, just the recognition of a CHOICE creates space, room to breathe...room to move and get unstuck from a very cramped and uncomfortable position. Energy, momentum, and possibility flow in. Being able to touch one's toes after years of experiencing pain in the attempt is motivating and encouraging.

So, what is it? What is that 'reality' that boxes you in, and keeps you from stepping into your joy? Here's another thing. Paradigms aren't real. They exist only in our perception. Does that make it a little easier?

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